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want to meet at Gallery Six

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erla wants to visit a museum at Gallery Six
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leoni wants to visit a museum at Gallery Six
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babett wants to visit a museum at Gallery Six
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4mos ago
Museum then coffee to talk about it.

want to meet at Brew Lab

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katiesmith wants to drink coffee at Brew Lab
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6h ago
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Slow morning + caffeine.
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louisatews wants to drink coffee at Brew Lab
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4mos ago
Slow morning + caffeine.
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want to meet at The Spot

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beatrix wants to visit a temple at The Spot
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hannemarie wants to do some sport at The Spot
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2mos ago
Casual workout buddy.
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torben wants to take a walk at The Spot
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3mos ago
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priyain wants to do some sport at The Spot
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3mos ago
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romana wants to do some sport at The Spot
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4mos ago
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anje wants to take a walk at The Spot
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4mos ago
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gerti wants to visit a temple at The Spot
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4mos ago
Quiet visit, then tea nearby.
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kristinbreuer wants to do some sport at The Spot
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4mos ago
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katiesmith wants to visit a temple at The Spot
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karin wants to do some sport at The Spot
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Is it a waste of travel experiences to Keep Coming Back to Bangkok?

I've been in a reflective mood lately, wrestling with the thought that my time spent regularly returning to Bangkok could've been better spent elsewhere. For context. I first visited this part of the… I've been in a reflective mood lately, wrestling with the thought that my time spent regularly returning to Bangkok could've been better spent elsewhere. For context. I first visited this part of the world in 2013 on the stereotypical SE Asia backpacking tour. I visited Thailand, Laos, and Cambodia and knew I'd be back in Thailand one day. I still think I'll eventually retire here, although I'm only 34 now so that's a while away yet.

After a year of working in a traditional corporate job in my country, I pivoted to become self-employed. This allowed me to live for a total of about 18 months in Chiang Mai from 2016-2019, where I had a girlfriend.

Then I explored Bangkok for a month before Covid hit and I really liked it. Ever since the restrictions eased in 2022, I've found myself coming back to Bangkok several times each year for 4-8 weeks at a time.

During my visits to Bangkok, I sometimes go to Vietnam or explore a new place in Thailand for a few days, but it's mostly like Bangkok is a second home base for me. I spend my days here living something approximating a normal routine like back home only in a surrounding that I feel more alive in. I visit interesting cafes and work for a few hours, I eat delicious food, I exercise, and I read. Sometimes I'll go check out a new part of the city or new restaurant. I get foot massages and Thai massages several times per week.

But when I contemplate the size of the world, or even just the size of this part of the world it's like I'm sacrificing a lot just to travel to where I feel comfortable and content. I love the food in Bangkok (and Thailand in general), I can train muay Thai cheaply, the coffee is amazing, massages are a God send for someone who spends hours per day working on a laptop.

I don't have tons of friends here, but I've made some really interesting transient connections over a few beers. Dating-wise, I'm not that into one-night stands so I tend to be in relationships here.

But by never seeing places like the Philippines, India, Indonesia, South Korea, Japan I feel like the average person on a 6-month gap year experiences more novelty than I have in years of travel. Often when I bump into people passing through Bangkok I'm staggered at the number of countries they've visited in their lives and I compare myself to that. I am starting to wonder if I'm wasting what is clearly a privileged position to be able to travel this much. I guess I'm half venting and half looking for opinions on what I've written.
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honestly i think you've found something most travelers never get to: a real rhythm in a foreign city. the whole "collecting countries" thing is mostly instagram flexing anyway. you're living a life you actually enjoy not just checking boxes

there's a huge difference between passing through Manila for 4 days and actually knowing which soi in Ari has the best khao soi or which massage lady at the Ratchada night market gives the best neck work. that's real knowledge you can't get from a 2-week trip

if you're worried about missing out just take a long weekend to somewhere close. fly to Da Nang for 3 days next time you're here, AirAsia has cheap flights. you'll probably realize Bangkok is still where you want to be

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There's nothing wrong with choosing depth over breadth. The people who breeze through 15 countries in a year are often the ones who can't tell you anything about any of them beyond which hostel had the best pool. You've got real knowledge of Bangkok's neighborhoods, like knowing that the best boat noodles are in that alley off Sukhumvit 26, not whatever tourist spot gets recommended online.

I've been here six years and still meet people who've been to 30 countries but have never had a regular vendor at the Or Tor Kor market remember their order. That kind of familiarity is rare. If you're feeling restless, take a weekend trip to Kanchanaburi or spend three days in Hua Hin. You'll probably come back grateful for the comfort you've built here.

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I've been in Bangkok for eight years now and I think you've stumbled onto something that a lot of people miss. The people who burn through fifteen countries in a year are usually the ones who spend half their time in transit or hungover in hostels. You're actually living somewhere, which means you get to notice things like how the jasmine smell changes between seasons or which vendor at Wang Lang market makes the best kanom krok.

If you want a compromise, try using Bangkok as your launchpad for shorter trips rather than moving your base. Take a Wednesday to Sunday in Luang Prabang or catch the night train to Chiang Mai for a week. You'll still have your apartment and your routine here but you'll scratch that itch for novelty. I did that with Yangon last year and it worked well.

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best som tam in Bangkok? Krua Dok Mai Kao 2026

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Krua Dok Mai Kao has been my go-to for Isaan food around On Nut for years. Their som tam is prob the most authentic I've found in the city, and the grilled chicken is always on point. Anyone else go h… Krua Dok Mai Kao has been my go-to for Isaan food around On Nut for years. Their som tam is prob the most authentic I've found in the city, and the grilled chicken is always on point. Anyone else go here?
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Krua Dok Mai Kao is solid but I've always found their som tam a bit tame on the pla ra. If you want the real funky version, try the shophouse spots along Soi Udomsuk 26, near the night market end. They pound it fresh with fermented fish that'll clear your sinuses, and it's like 60 baht. Different style from the On Nut places, more Lao-leaning.

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for som tam specifically i'd say the Isaan spots in Chatuchak are underrated, weekdays only though since the weekend crowd ruins the vibe. there's a stall near gate 2 that does tam pa with fermented bamboo shoots, super sour and funky, not something you see much in On Nut. if you're already heading north for Or Tor Kor anyway its worth the detour.

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honestly the som tam at Krua Dok Mai Kao is good but what got me hooked is their nam prik pla raa dip with the raw veggies, that funk hits way harder than the papaya does. think most people sleep on it cuz they just order the som tam and gai yang. also pro tip, go before noon on weekdays, after that teh pla ra gets milder cuz they batch it for the lunch rush

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