Was I taken advantage of? Not sure how to feel ab…

maxi · 2026-05-07T01:52:32+02:00

Dear all - mostly women I think, but I welcome everyone's opinion. Throwaway account. Quite long, I am sorry. I am a 32 f, currently on a solo vacation in Bangkok. I have stumbled upon a massage place on google, where the therapists are blind. Booked a massage online, I have chosen the option „Any therapist, male or female" option, and had the best massage of my life. The place is very nice, professional and prices are on a higher end. The masseuse was a young man, I was provided with clothes to wear and it was an office type massage, alleviating the office job related issues. It was at times painful, but it felt super professional and I immediately felt the change and that it helped my neck/shoulder issue. The guy does not really speak English, so we did not communicate, just asked a few times if I am okay. It was almost completely dark and I cannot fully describe what I felt but somehow I was a bit intimidated by the guy, but did not say or show anything of course and the whole massage was done wearing the massage clothes. I have felt some kind of spark between us. I have tipped 30% and was very happy and asked his name at the reception. The day after the following day I have booked a 2 hours long full body oil massage, now specifically choosing him, because his massage really helped. This time I had to wear a little panty that was provided and I was partially covered with a towel. He massaged my legs, zero communication (the receptionist lady asked in the beginning what area should be focused on and I told her my shoulders.) and what I noticed that he massaged the thighs very thoroughly, almost touching my intimate parts. I did not react or say anything. Then, the butt was also massaged in a way that he almost touched my anus. A lot of oil was used. Then it continued and then, when massaging the legs, very quickly and gently, run his fingers through my vulva through the panties. I started to feel aroused, and then, seemingly as part of the normal procedure, he massaged my chest area, my boobs, not in a sexual way but of course as a woman it felt that way and was unexpected (I am European, it is not usual at all). So I felt both uncomfortable and aroused - and then, again, seemingly as part of the normal procedure, he massaged my hips, pelvic area and run his fingers through my venus. And then proceeded to lower my panties and straight up massage my venus, a few times touching my clitoris. I was shocked but also aroused, I could have had an orgasm basically but I controlled myself and acted like this was normal. He then continued with other parts, head, etc and I was almost shaking. I then thanked him and he left the room and I paid at the reception and as he was sitting there too, gave him a tip (250 thb). So my question is - wtf was this? It's not a happy finish cheap parlor place, but it surely cannot be normal? Otherwise he was professional and the massage was like a dream, but how should I understand this? Please help me sort out my thoughts. Thank you!