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kersten wants to eat something at Charcoal Yard
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Local recommendations welcome.
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ingaoffermann wants to eat something at Charcoal Yard
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want to meet at Gallery Six

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erla wants to visit a museum at Gallery Six
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15h ago
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leoni wants to visit a museum at Gallery Six
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4mos ago
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babett wants to visit a museum at Gallery Six
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4mos ago
Museum then coffee to talk about it.

want to meet at Brew Lab

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katiesmith wants to drink coffee at Brew Lab
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15h ago
6d from now
Slow morning + caffeine.
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louisatews wants to drink coffee at Brew Lab
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4mos ago
Slow morning + caffeine.
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Just got interrogated by police for having coffee inside a coffee shop?

Weirdest thing.

I've been living in BKK under the DTV for 2 weeks and I'm trying to find my "go to" morning coffee spot so I've been going to different places.

Found SOL Coffee in Asok near this ope…
Weirdest thing.

I've been living in BKK under the DTV for 2 weeks and I'm trying to find my "go to" morning coffee spot so I've been going to different places.

Found SOL Coffee in Asok near this open food market where I get lunch so I stopped in and sat down. It's off a busy Soi and opposite is a Starbucks attached to a big office building. I was seated in the coffee shop half facing the road/office/Starbucks with a large driveway in the middle.

I'm having my coffee and seated there for about 20-30 minutes just listening to music and playing on my phone like I usually do, then some neatly presented guy in business attire comes up to my table.

It was a small coffee shop so I thought he wanted to sit at my table because the other tables were taken. He tells me the police have asked him to talk to me to ask why I'm here as they haven't seen me before and I keep looking at the office building.

He asks what I'm there for. I'm like um, just having coffee? He asks to see my passport. I'm like sorry and who are you? He said I'm talking to you because the police officer asked me and he points behind me. I look behind and see a BIB standing there about 20m away from the window looking at us. He said the cop doesn't speak English that's why he's talking to me. I'm like ah okay fair enough now that I've seen the BIB and verified it's not some random.

I showed him my passport scan and he took a photo. He said it doesn't really look like me, because I was fat when I took the photo and I had hair at the time. He asked if I had ID so I showed my Aus drivers license so he can see my name and photo. He's like ah it's expired. Like that matters? I'm not driving lol it's to prove my identity.

So I opened my DTV approval letter and showed him my 5 year visa which has my current photo and dates I'm allowed to be in the country. He took a photo of it. Then I showed him my weight loss before and after shot so he can see why my passport photo head looks different to now, he took a photo of that too.

Asked me heaps of questions like where am I staying, where am I going after this, what country I'm from, how long am I in Thailand, who do I know in Thailand, what work do I do in Thailand.. Told him everything showed him on Google Maps my condo is 7 min walk away, here's my DTV, I'm going to the food market 2 min walk away after this etc.

The whole conversation was about 10 minutes.

He shakes my hand and thanks me and then asks how long I'm gonna be in Thailand and I say 5 years and he's like oh wow congratulations and shakes my hand again and goes on his way.

I'll be clear the guy was super nice and not intimidating at all but he had rapid fire question responses to literally everything I answered, trying to catch me in a lie or stump me.

It seems like the cop thought has thought I looked suspicious because he'd never seen me before and because when I looked up from my phone I was looking at the office building that was right IN FRONT OF MY FACE OPPOSITE THE COFFEE SHOP!

There was a Starbucks right there so maybe he even thought it was weird I'd gone to a more local coffee shop instead of Starbucks which was about 20m away?

I'm a guest in this country so I didn't get angry or take offence or anything, I understand they're just doing their job but fuck what a bizarre experience lol.

For stereotype reference I'm light to tanned skinned, look somewhat Philipino but I'm from Australia, and I was wearing fake market Nike shorts and top with flip flops. So I just look like an average tourist lol.

Edit: I'll mention that my actions stemmed from me being pretty scared of being taken into the police station, based on stories I've heard. So I understand if in hindsight it sounds like I was stupid but the fear emotion can make someone have clouded judgement. Moving forward I'll be speaking to the tourist police and the actual police officer directly. I'm new in this country so shit is gonna happen to me at some stage, at least I got the feedback on here because I'd never even thought about tourist police.

Edit 2: What most people who say I've been scammed don't realise (which I didn't) is that the building I was facing was actually the Israeli Embassy where security is heightened. Seeing me just seated there facing it, possibly taking photos with my phone etc. I'm not surprised I was checked. I'm not worried about this 'scam' threat anymore.
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Image supornth local ·

honestly the embassy security thing explains it but also worth knowing that SOL is in a weird spot where the soi dead-ends into that market so foot traffic is mostly locals who live nearby. a new face sitting there for 30 mins just staring at the embassy while on their phone is gonna ping their radar every time

if you want a morning spot with zero hassle try Nana Coffee Roasters on Soi 22, it's like 3 mins from Asok BTS but tucked away behind the Nana Hotel. their espresso is solid and the street out front is just normal shops so nobody's watching you. also they open at 7am which is nice for early coffee runs

the guy translating for the cop thing is standard here btw, they'll grab whoever speaks english nearby. next time just walk up to the cop yourself and say "sawasdee krub" with a smile, they usually relax once they see you're not nervous

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Image philinehoeger local ·

nah that's SOL alright, the embassy security there is no joke. i've been questioned twice just walking past that building on my phone, they really don't mess around

if you want a spot without the surveillance vibes try Kaizen Coffee on Soi 26, it's a 5 min walk from Asok and way more relaxed. their pour-over is decent and nobody's gonna bother you for looking at a building

also fwiw the whole "cop sent a random guy" thing is actually pretty common in Thailand when the officer doesn't speak english. they'll grab whoever's nearby who can translate. weird system but it's just how they operate here

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Image eikebalzer local ·

Yeah that's SOL Coffee, it's a good spot. The Israeli Embassy thing explains it, that building has security guys watching constantly. I've seen them stop people just taking photos on the sidewalk there.

For what it's worth, most Thais would have just walked over and talked to the cop directly instead of dealing with some random guy. But you handled it fine for being new here. If it happens again just wave at the officer and walk over, they're usually pretty chill once they see you're not weird about it.

Try Fools Congregation down Soi 23 if you want another local spot, their cold brew is better than SOL's in my opinion.

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best som tam in Bangkok? Krua Dok Mai Kao 2026

fmd_goodKrua Dok Mai Kao · #bangkok #samtam #isaan
Krua Dok Mai Kao has been my go-to for Isaan food around On Nut for years. Their som tam is prob the most authentic I've found in the city, and the grilled chicken is always on point. Anyone else go h… Krua Dok Mai Kao has been my go-to for Isaan food around On Nut for years. Their som tam is prob the most authentic I've found in the city, and the grilled chicken is always on point. Anyone else go here?
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Krua Dok Mai Kao is solid but I've always found their som tam a bit tame on the pla ra. If you want the real funky version, try the shophouse spots along Soi Udomsuk 26, near the night market end. They pound it fresh with fermented fish that'll clear your sinuses, and it's like 60 baht. Different style from the On Nut places, more Lao-leaning.

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for som tam specifically i'd say the Isaan spots in Chatuchak are underrated, weekdays only though since the weekend crowd ruins the vibe. there's a stall near gate 2 that does tam pa with fermented bamboo shoots, super sour and funky, not something you see much in On Nut. if you're already heading north for Or Tor Kor anyway its worth the detour.

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Image sabinemies local ·

honestly the som tam at Krua Dok Mai Kao is good but what got me hooked is their nam prik pla raa dip with the raw veggies, that funk hits way harder than the papaya does. think most people sleep on it cuz they just order the som tam and gai yang. also pro tip, go before noon on weekdays, after that teh pla ra gets milder cuz they batch it for the lunch rush

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