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yasemin wants to drink coffee at Common Grounds
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Practice English over coffee.
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frida wants to drink coffee at Common Grounds
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ivonne wants to drink coffee at Common Grounds
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roselotte wants to visit a museum at Modern Arts
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want to meet at The Spot

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birga wants to visit a temple at The Spot
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janet wants to visit a temple at The Spot
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Why all these compliments?

I have spent 3 weeks in Korea and I like it a lot. I have met so many fun, light hearted people. Contrary to the other thread, people do come talk to me and are curious who I am and what I am doing he… I have spent 3 weeks in Korea and I like it a lot. I have met so many fun, light hearted people. Contrary to the other thread, people do come talk to me and are curious who I am and what I am doing here. Granted, some of them are religious cults, but I recognize those.

However, there is something that is puzzling me. I have travelled over 40 countries, and it has never (or maybe once) happened that a complete stranger would come to me and give me a compliment. In Korea, this happens maybe once every 2 days, in the most random of places. On the bus station, while in line of convenience store, in a club, in a restaurant, while sitting down in public. The complients are always on my appearance, and without even saying hello first, few examples: "you are a very nice man", "you have beautiful eyes", "wow, so handsome", "You are so handsome, are you an actor?"

These people are around my age (29), and almost always men. What would their motives be? Are they trying to hit on me, just try to uplift me, as a conversation starter, something else? Does anyone else have similar experiences?
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Image romi local ·

it's a real thing, especially for foreign guys with features that stand out here. you'll get it less in gangnam where everyone's in their own world, but in neighborhoods like hongdae or near hongik university it's almost daily. the "are you an actor" thing is basically korean for "you look different and i like it" since the beauty standards here lean toward a specific look

it's not usually a come-on unless they linger or ask for your kakao. korean guys in their 20s are just blunt with compliments, no weird motive behind it. if it bothers you, a quick "감사합니다" with a nod and keep walking shuts it down cleanly every time

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Image stella local ·

honestly this is just how it is here. korean guys in their 20s and 30s are pretty forward with compliments compared to other places. it's not necessarily hitting on you, a lot of them just think you look good and say it straight up, no small talk needed.

i've seen it happen to foreign friends all the time around hongdae and itaewon. sometimes they're curious if you're a model or actor because you stand out visually. the no-hello thing is normal too, koreans don't always do the western warmup before saying something direct.

if they stick around and ask personal questions after the compliment then yeah prob interested. but a random "you have beautiful eyes" from a guy at a bus stop is just a compliment, take it and move on

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yeah this is super common here for foreign guys. the compliment culture in korea is different, people just say what they think without the social buffer you'd get in the west. i've had ajummas at the market tell me i have nice skin and guys my age say i look like a movie star, all completely unprompted.

it's not really a pickup thing most of the time. koreans are just more direct with compliments, especially when you're visibly foreign. they see it as a friendly gesture, not necessarily flirting. the actor/model question is basically their way of saying "you look different in a good way" because you stand out from the typical korean look.

if they're not hanging around trying to get your number or buy you a drink after, it's just a random compliment. happens way more in hongdae and sinchon where people are used to seeing foreigners. in gangnam or more local areas it's less common but still happens. just say thanks and go on with your day.

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Dogdogdog's Secret?

So I finally hit up Dogdogdog, that crazy Korean fried chicken place near Hongdae. The place was PACKED, like seriously wall-to-wall people. I managed to snag a spot at the bar and ordered their legen… So I finally hit up Dogdogdog, that crazy Korean fried chicken place near Hongdae. The place was PACKED, like seriously wall-to-wall people. I managed to snag a spot at the bar and ordered their legendary spicy soy garlic wings, holy moly, they were incredible. The crunch, the flavor...it was a flavor explosion. But here's the thing: I saw the owner, this super chill dude, whispering to a staff member about some "special sauce." I'm dying to know... what's the secret ingredient in that insane sauce?!
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the whispering thing is real but its not about the sauce lol. that guy runs a 2am handoff with the chicken supplier, they drop off fresh birds from a farm near Chuncheon three times a week instead of using the frozen stuff most hongdae spots rely on. thats why the texture hits different, not the sauce itself. if u go back ask for the neck & wing combo off menu, its cheaper & honestly the best cut they do

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the thing nobody mentions is that Dogdogdog's sauce gets its body from cheong, the Korean rice syrup, not sugar. thats why it coats the wing so thick and stays glossy instead of going sticky. i asked a guy who worked there and he said they also add a splash of maesil (plum) extract at the end off the heat. that fruity tang under the garlic is what you're tasting. go on a weekday before 6, weekends the wait hits 40 min easy.

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honestly the "secret sauce" thing is prob just marketing. every fried chicken place in Seoul has a version of that story. the real difference at Dogdogdog is they double fry in rice bran oil and toss the wings in the sauce twice, once right out of the fryer and again after a 30 sec rest. thats where the crunch comes from, not some mystery ingredient. if u wanna taste the actual base, order the banban half plain half spicy and dip the plain one in the spicy sauce yourself.

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