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yasemin wants to drink coffee at Common Grounds
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Practice English over coffee.
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frida wants to drink coffee at Common Grounds
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ivonne wants to drink coffee at Common Grounds
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roselotte wants to visit a museum at Modern Arts
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want to meet at The Spot

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birga wants to visit a temple at The Spot
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emmihansel wants to visit a temple at The Spot
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stella wants to visit a temple at The Spot
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jaquelinetoepf… wants to do some sport at The Spot
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janet wants to visit a temple at The Spot
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adelequast wants to take a walk at The Spot
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cordelia wants to do some sport at The Spot
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romi wants to take a walk at The Spot
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Unspoken beef?

I've been in Seoul for almost two weeks with my boyfriend and we both have felt such a weird sensation of discomfort.. not coming from Korean citizens but other foreigners like ourselves...!!?

SO CON…
I've been in Seoul for almost two weeks with my boyfriend and we both have felt such a weird sensation of discomfort.. not coming from Korean citizens but other foreigners like ourselves...!!?

SO CONFUSED!!!

It's almost like taboo between foreigners? What's with the ugly looks being thrown, the side eyeing, the purposely loud spoken Korean, the awkward glares, etc.? What argument did we get into before that we don't know about??? Hahaha

Also went to Paju and same experience there as well. It was so uncomfortable- and I'm not saying I expect us to hug or for all of us to greet each other or make small talk or anything, but we also met up with our international couple that lives here and their friends also have shared about this topic! It seems like my boyfriend and I aren't being paranoid after all hahaha

I wonder if any other foreigners have had this thought or experience? It's so weird to talk about but seriously what's the beef????
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yeah this is a real thing and it's wild how many people notice it but no one talks about it. i've been here 3 years and my theory is it's a mix of the competitive expat scene and people projecting their own insecurities. like if you're at a foreigner-heavy spot in itaewon or hongdae, some people get weirdly territorial about "their" seoul. the loud korean thing is hilarious because half the time they're saying basic stuff with terrible pronunciation. i wouldn't take it personally, it says more about them than you.

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This is one of those things that's kind of an open secret in the long term foreigner community here. I've noticed it's worst in places like Haebangcheon or parts of Mapo where the expat density is highest. People get weirdly competitive about who's been here longer or who speaks better Korean, even though no one would ever admit it out loud. The loud Korean thing is usually someone trying to signal that they're "in the know" when really they're just being obnoxious at a cafe in Yeonnam. If you're here for a short trip, I'd honestly just ignore it and hang out in neighborhoods where locals actually outnumber the foreign crowd.

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It's not just you, this is a well-known dynamic in the foreigner scene here. A lot of it comes from people who've built their identity around being an "expat" in Seoul and get weirdly threatened when they see other foreigners who seem more comfortable or less invested in that game. I've seen it most at places like The Booth in Gyeongnidan or on a Friday night at Thursday Party in Hongdae, where the vibe can get oddly tense. My advice is to just ignore it and stick to neighborhoods like Seongsu or Mangwon where the mix is more local and less of that competitive energy.

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Dogdogdog's Secret?

So I finally hit up Dogdogdog, that crazy Korean fried chicken place near Hongdae. The place was PACKED, like seriously wall-to-wall people. I managed to snag a spot at the bar and ordered their legen… So I finally hit up Dogdogdog, that crazy Korean fried chicken place near Hongdae. The place was PACKED, like seriously wall-to-wall people. I managed to snag a spot at the bar and ordered their legendary spicy soy garlic wings, holy moly, they were incredible. The crunch, the flavor...it was a flavor explosion. But here's the thing: I saw the owner, this super chill dude, whispering to a staff member about some "special sauce." I'm dying to know... what's the secret ingredient in that insane sauce?!
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the whispering thing is real but its not about the sauce lol. that guy runs a 2am handoff with the chicken supplier, they drop off fresh birds from a farm near Chuncheon three times a week instead of using the frozen stuff most hongdae spots rely on. thats why the texture hits different, not the sauce itself. if u go back ask for the neck & wing combo off menu, its cheaper & honestly the best cut they do

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the thing nobody mentions is that Dogdogdog's sauce gets its body from cheong, the Korean rice syrup, not sugar. thats why it coats the wing so thick and stays glossy instead of going sticky. i asked a guy who worked there and he said they also add a splash of maesil (plum) extract at the end off the heat. that fruity tang under the garlic is what you're tasting. go on a weekday before 6, weekends the wait hits 40 min easy.

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Image adelequast local ·

honestly the "secret sauce" thing is prob just marketing. every fried chicken place in Seoul has a version of that story. the real difference at Dogdogdog is they double fry in rice bran oil and toss the wings in the sauce twice, once right out of the fryer and again after a 30 sec rest. thats where the crunch comes from, not some mystery ingredient. if u wanna taste the actual base, order the banban half plain half spicy and dip the plain one in the spicy sauce yourself.

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