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susannhaberlan… wants to eat something at Route 9 Diner
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4h ago
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Open to anywhere with good food.

want to meet at Ironhouse Steaks

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annemarialippm… wants to eat something at Ironhouse Steaks
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sindyschuhmach… wants to eat something at Ironhouse Steaks
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yasminmaisch wants to eat something at Ironhouse Steaks
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4mos ago
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want to meet at Common Place

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angelicatroest… wants to take a walk at Common Place
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dinavolkmer wants to visit a temple at Common Place
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edithfriedrich… wants to take a walk at Common Place
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fritzi wants to do some sport at Common Place
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4mos ago
Casual workout buddy.
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diana wants to visit a temple at Common Place
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jenny wants to do some sport at Common Place
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4mos ago
Casual workout buddy.
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roselwoll wants to take a walk at Common Place
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4mos ago
Easy stroll, 1-2h, no rush.
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katarinarahn wants to do some sport at Common Place
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4mos ago
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zenta wants to take a walk at Common Place
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tatjana

Is it me or does lesbian dating here suck?

So hey guys, I'm a lesbian who moved to Tokyo about six months ago and I've downloaded apps and so far barely any matches. It seems like a lot of people here aren't out (which I understand is cultural… So hey guys, I'm a lesbian who moved to Tokyo about six months ago and I've downloaded apps and so far barely any matches. It seems like a lot of people here aren't out (which I understand is cultural and I don't necessarily have a problem with) but it seems most people I've talked to are questioning? Which there's nothing wrong with it's just at this point in my life, I would like to meet someone more serious if that makes sense? Obviously I know gay marriage isn't legal. Maybe I'm just getting old, I'm 26. I've gone to Nichome a few times, had a lot of fun but haven't really met anyone. Which I realize often times is either language barrier (I'm probably n4ish) or the people that I talk to that are foreign are leaving soon/on a trip. Was just wondering if this is a common thing here and I am doomed to be forever alone haha
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Image lisbethdeutsch local ·

Nichome is fun but it's more of a scene for cruising and drinking with friends than meeting someone to date. I'd try Goldfinger's women's night or the monthly events at Aiaiioi, the crowd skews older and more serious. Also, if you're N4ish you might have better luck with the bilingual queer meetups rather than apps, there's one that meets at a cafe in Yoyogi on Saturdays that's pretty low key. You're not doomed, it just takes longer to find your people here than it would in New York or London.

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Image isedore local ·

ngl the apps are pretty rough here, especially for lesbians. most japanese women i know who date women use pairs or tapple rather than tinder/her, you'll get more real convos there. also check out goldfinger or aiaioi in shinjuku for events, they do women-focused nights sometimes and the crowd tends to be more settled than nichome bars where everyone's in tourist mode. 26 is not old, it's like the average age people start getting serious here since everyone's busy working until then

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Image danny local ·

honestly it's a common complaint i hear from lesbian friends here, you're not alone. the scene is small and a lot of people are either closeted or still figuring things out, especially in their 20s. if you haven't tried it yet, there's a meetup group called tokyo queer ladies that does casual cafe hangs and hikes, way more low pressure than bars and you actually get to talk to people without the noise. also 26 is young for tokyo, most people don't settle into serious dating until late 20s early 30s here because everyone's grinding at work first

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lisethomse…

Best time to visit Ueno Zoo in Tokyo 2026?

fmd_goodCity Zoo · #tickets #tokyo #uenozoo
I'm visiting Tokyo for the first time in April 2026 and Ueno Zoo is high on my list. What's the best day and time to go to avoid crowds, and do I need to book tickets in advance? I'm visiting Tokyo for the first time in April 2026 and Ueno Zoo is high on my list. What's the best day and time to go to avoid crowds, and do I need to book tickets in advance?
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Image sara local ·

Weekday right at 9:30 opening, Tuesday or Wednesday.

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Image roselwoll local ·

yeah wednesday is quieter than tuesday tbh, and the panda line forms before 9 so queue by 9:15 at the ikebukuro gate

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wednesdays quieter, panda line starts before 9

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