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want to meet at The Spot

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katie wants to visit a temple at The Spot
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22m ago
1h from now
Quiet visit, then tea nearby.
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kathie wants to visit a temple at The Spot
looking for Female
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3d ago
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mariola wants to do some sport at The Spot
looking for Female
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4d ago
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ankehasse wants to visit a temple at The Spot
looking for Male, Female, Non-binary
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2mos ago
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sibillahoelsch… wants to take a walk at The Spot
looking for Male, Female, Non-binary
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3mos ago
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katja wants to do some sport at The Spot
looking for Male
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4mos ago
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haraldabrandt wants to visit a temple at The Spot
looking for Female
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4mos ago
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magda wants to take a walk at The Spot
looking for Male, Female
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4mos ago

want to meet at Market Deli

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dorathome wants to eat something at Market Deli
looking for Male, Female, Non-binary
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1h ago
6d from now
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tabea wants to eat something at Market Deli
looking for Male, Female, Non-binary
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4mos ago
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ewarosner wants to eat something at Market Deli
looking for Male
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4mos ago
Local recommendations welcome.

want to meet at Slice & Co

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ilse wants to eat something at Slice & Co
looking for Male
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3h ago
1d from now
Local recommendations welcome.
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adelheide wants to eat something at Slice & Co
looking for Male, Female, Non-binary
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4mos ago
Open to anywhere with good food.
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What are your experiences with dressing up in Berlin?

Berliners usually dress down a lot, especially in the east. In the west you have a lot of girls who dress „tussig" which I wouldn't consider as dressed well more like commercial. I get many weird look… Berliners usually dress down a lot, especially in the east. In the west you have a lot of girls who dress „tussig" which I wouldn't consider as dressed well more like commercial. I get many weird looks when I dress up 😅 Rarely do I get compliments, it's more like faces of ignorance or contempt because they now how the feeling shit about having dressed down. I fly a lot so I always do my make up at the airport toilet in berlin to save time. Usually people are in and out of the bathroom. But not when one person is doing their make up... oh no then suddenly every woman starts analyzing their face, doing their hair or also starting to do make up. So there must be some sense of "let me look great too". Not that you only look good with make up but you get my point it's about putting in an extra thought or effort. Germans are weird when it comes to style and fashion or is it just me😆
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nah you're not wrong, it's a real thing here. east berlin especially, people wear the same black puffer jacket and beanie from october to april, it's like a uniform. i've lived in friedrichshain for years and if i throw on a blazer for a dinner thing, i get side eyes on the tram like i'm headed to a wedding.

the airport bathroom thing is hilarious and true though. there's this weird competitive energy that only comes out when someone else is clearly making an effort. it's like they'd never dress up on their own but they can't stand to feel outdone.

one thing that helps, if you care: stick to kreuzberg or neukölln for nightlife, people there are more into individual style, vintage, that kind of thing. it's less "tussig" and more creative. but for day to day, yeah, you'll always be the odd one out. just own it, honestly the ones who stare are usually just jealous they didn't bother.

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honestly the airport bathroom thing is so spot on, i've seen it happen in tegel and now ber brandenburg too. it's like people here only allow themselves to care about appearance when someone else does it first, weird group mentality.

but there's a flip side to the dressing down that i kinda love. nobody judges you for showing up to a nice restaurant in sneakers and a hoodie, you can be super casual and still get great service. in other cities you'd feel underdressed, here it's totally fine.

for actual dressing up, check out the smaller cocktail bars in mitte or charlottenburg, like around savignyplatz. people there tend to be older, more refined, and they do put effort in without the whole tussig vibe. it's a different crowd than the clubs, more like.. understated elegance. you'll get way less weird looks there.

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haha i feel this so hard. lived in prenzlauer berg for a bit and even there, which is supposed to be the "nicer" east, people just do the whole clean minimal thing but never actually dress up. it's like they're afraid of looking like they tried too hard.

the weird looks thing is real though. i think it's partly a berlin thing where effort is almost suspicious, like you're showing off or you don't belong. but honestly, i've started to see it as a filter. if someone gives you a nasty look for wearing a nice dress to a gallery opening, that's on them, not you.

for actual stylish people who aren't tussig, try the bars around hackescher markt on a weekday evening, not the touristy ones but the little speakeasy types down the side streets. also, the crowds at berlin art week or fashion week events are the only times you'll genuinely blend in, but that's like twice a year.

and yeah, the bathroom thing is a whole social experiment. i think berliners secretly want to dress up but they've convinced themselves it's uncool, so when someone does it, it triggers this weird mix of envy and defiance. you're not the weird one, the city is just in a weird phase.

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What is the correct spelling for a street name that appears differently on multiple signs in Charlottenburg?

I noticed that the street name is spelled differently on three separate signs in the Charlottenburg area. Can anyone confirm the correct official spelling and whether this is a known issue? I noticed that the street name is spelled differently on three separate signs in the Charlottenburg area. Can anyone confirm the correct official spelling and whether this is a known issue?
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Worth noting that Berlin street names have official umlaut and ß rules that trip people up, so a sign showing "Strasse" versus "Straße" is not actually a spelling error, just an older transcription. Same with "ue" versus "ü" (e.g. "Kantstrasse" vs "Kantstraße"), both are considered valid renderings and you'll see the ß version on the blue Schilder and the ss version on older plaques or in databases that predate Unicode. If the difference you're seeing is between those two forms, there's nothing to fix and both are technically correct.

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if the signs u mean are the old enamel ones on the house facades those are often protected as Baudenkmal so nobody's allowed to correct them even if the spelling is outdated. the binding version is whatever is in the Berliner Strassenverzeichnis plus the entry in the Liegenschaftskataster, so if u tell me the street i can point u to the right Bezirksamt Mitte or Charlottenburg-Wilmersdorf page. tbh the merged district thing is real but the facade signs are a separate story, theyre basically museum pieces at this point

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honestly thats super common in Charlottenburg, the district offices were merged from older Bezirke and nobody ever fixed all the Schilder. if its a real street you can check the official strassenverzeichnis on berlin.de, that list is what the Burgeramt actually goes by. which street is it? some of the Kaiserdamm / Kantstrasse signs are notorious for this.

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