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Why do the security in my local stores always follow me around?

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I live in a neighbourhood called Archway in North London.

I don't have a bag, wear gigantic coats, or look at staff members, or do anything suspicious. I wear a blue bomber jacket and black je…
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I live in a neighbourhood called Archway in North London.

I don't have a bag, wear gigantic coats, or look at staff members, or do anything suspicious. I wear a blue bomber jacket and black jeans.

Around 2022, I actually had a scenario in the Aldi where the guy was making it so obvious, I started to laugh. The man was turning sharply turning corners so much that I even ran into him (and he turned back lmfao). The ones that do it the most are the co-op and the Iceland.

Even though many people in my life think I'm on the spectrum (I'm not diagnosed), I'm definitely not making things up in my head. Some of these shops I've been going to for 12+ years

It happens so much, that I don't feel bad when they do it, and then the front entrance alarms start bleeping as a shoplifter leaves, because they'd rather follow me than guard the door. It's not my job at risk.
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Image juliaschoeler local ·

honestly it might be the bomber jacket, i've noticed security in archway gets weird about certain looks. the co-op on junction road is notorious for this, the staff there are just jumpy in general. iceland too, but that one's more about them having had actual issues with teens in the past. if you want to test it, try wearing a different jacket for a week and see if it changes anything. the aldi story is funny though, that guy must have been embarassed

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liamr local ·

ngl the bomber jacket thing is real, especially in archway where security profiles off brand logos and sportswear. the iceland on holloway road has a specific guy who follows anyone under 40 wearing dark clothes, it's been like that for years

tbh you could try just walking straight to the counter and asking them where something is. it throws them off because they expect you to be avoiding staff. i've done it at the co-op and the guy just stood there awkwardly before wandering off

also worth noting that a lot of these security guys are on minimum wage and bored. they pick a person and commit to it like it's a game. doesn't make it less annoying but at least you know it's not personal

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Probably just coincidence. London's busy, they're likely checking on multiple things at once. Or maybe you just have that "I'm about to steal something" vibe going on. 😉

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Where to Stay in London (2026)

🏙️ Central Splurge: Mayfair & Covent Garden
For first-time visitors who want to be in the thick of it, Mayfair offers luxury hotels like Claridge's and The Connaught, with suites starting around £…
🏙️ Central Splurge: Mayfair & Covent Garden
For first-time visitors who want to be in the thick of it, Mayfair offers luxury hotels like Claridge's and The Connaught, with suites starting around £500 per night. Covent Garden is more mid-range, with boutique options like The Henrietta Hotel from £250, putting you steps from theaters and restaurants. These areas are ideal for couples and solo travelers who prioritize convenience and don't mind higher prices.

🌳 Quiet Retreats: Hampstead & Richmond
If you prefer a peaceful escape, Hampstead offers leafy streets, the heath, and charming pubs, with boutique B&Bs like The White House from £150 per night. Richmond is even greener, with the deer park and riverside walks; try the Richmond Hill Hotel from £180. These suit families and older travelers who want a calm base with easy access to central London via the Tube or overground.

🎉 Nightlife Hubs: Shoreditch & Soho
Shoreditch is the epicenter of cool, with street art, speakeasies, and clubs like The Book Club; budget hostels like Generator London start at £30 per night, while boutique hotels like The Hoxton average £200. Soho offers a grittier, 24-hour vibe with bars and LGBTQ+ venues; stay at the Z Hotel Soho from £150. These are perfect for young travelers and night owls who want to be where the action is.

🍜 Family-Friendly Zones: South Kensington & Greenwich
South Kensington is a family magnet thanks to the Natural History Museum and Science Museum, with hotels like the Holiday Inn Kensington from £180 per night offering family rooms. Greenwich has the Cutty Sark, the Royal Observatory, and big parks; stay at the Novotel Greenwich from £120. Both areas have excellent transport links and plenty of kid-friendly dining.

💻 Digital Nomad Spots: King's Cross & Old Street
King's Cross has been transformed with co-working spaces like Google Campus and the trendy Coal Drops Yard; hotels such as the Pullman London St Pancras from £200 offer reliable Wi-Fi and workspaces. Old Street is the heart of Tech City, with affordable aparthotels like The Zetter from £180 and numerous coffee shops with free Wi-Fi. These areas suit remote workers who need fast internet and a vibrant startup scene.

💰 Budget-Friendly Picks: Paddington & Earl's Court
Paddington offers good-value hotels like the Hilton London Paddington from £120 per night, with direct access to Heathrow via the Express. Earl's Court has many budget hostels and guesthouses, such as the London House Hotel from £80, and is close to museums and parks. These are great for backpackers and budget-conscious travelers who still want a central location.

🚇 Getting Around: Transport Tips
London's Tube and bus network covers all neighborhoods, with a single fare costing £2.80 using contactless payment. The Night Tube runs on select lines on weekends, making late-night returns easy from central areas. For airport transfers, the Heathrow Express from Paddington takes 15 minutes and costs £25 one-way, while the Gatwick Express from Victoria is £20.

🗓️ Booking Advice for 2026
Book at least 3 months ahead for summer and December, as prices spike during Wimbledon and Christmas markets. Consider staying in Zone 2 neighborhoods like Clapham or Islington for lower rates and a local feel, with hotels averaging £100-150 per night. Always check cancellation policies, as many hotels offer free cancellation up to 24 hours before arrival.
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nice guide, really thorough. one thing i'd add for the digital nomad section is that king's cross can feel a bit soulless at night, all those shiny new buildings and not much character. if you want a proper local pub after work, head a ten minute walk to the edinboro castle on jersey street, it's a proper old boozer from 1820 with decent ale and none of the tech crowd. also for the family-friendly bit, south kensington is great but the museums are free so you don't need to splash out on a hotel near them, you can stay somewhere cheaper in barons court and be there in a fifteen minute walk

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Image lisel local ·

yeah this is a great breakdown, really helpful. one thing i'd throw in for the nightlife hubs is that soho can be a nightmare on friday and saturday nights with all the drunk crowds spilling out everywhere, i actually prefer staying in bloombsbury just north of it, you get the british museum and russell square right there, and you can walk into soho in ten minutes but still sleep in peace. also for the budget picks, earl's court is decent but the area around west kensington station has some proper bargains, i got a room

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Image ira local ·

really appreciate the effort that went into this, it's a solid breakdown of the options. for the central splurge section, i'd actually steer people toward fitzrovia over mayfair if they want that luxury feel without the full tourist markup. the charlotte street hotel does rooms from around £300 and you're a five minute walk from soho but it's way quieter, plus you get proper local restaurants like rodeo's on greek street for a decent steak. also for the budget picks, paddington is fine but the area around bayswater just south of it has better value, i've found rooms at the chelsea guest house for £70 a night and you're right next to hyde park with the district line right there

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