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Why is it so common for people to claim they don't have money?

I don't understand this common behavior, as in my culture we have a saying: "Better to lose money than lose face/dignity"

Trust me, I'm not talking about specific income classes, I'm seeing this acro…
I don't understand this common behavior, as in my culture we have a saying: "Better to lose money than lose face/dignity"

Trust me, I'm not talking about specific income classes, I'm seeing this across all people I've worked with as colleagues or are clients at work:

Colleague wants some petty cash for the delivery? good luck getting it back even though it's 20 AED, they make you feel like you're insulting them by asking for it.

Tenant payment is due? you call them, email them, text them via SMS and WhatsApp, send reminders, and they make all sorts of excuses yet as soon as you wave legal trouble in their direction they pay up instantly (This if from work not something personally owned)

Neighbor knocks on your door? yes the delivery guy forgot to bring a card machine and they don't have cash, and what exactly do you have to do with it? you close the door yet they knock again next week, you don't even know their name or their number, sorry not sorry.

Son of the richest man in your home country is drowning in debt, gets in a horrible traffic accident (money wise, no one got hurt), instead of calling his dad or his 2 rich uncles that he keeps bragging about and is in all of their photos, he begs you, his colleague, to pay up thousands and swears he'll pay in two days, good luck getting the money back in installments, you spend a whole year following up with him, he blocks you, you talk to his brother, he pays a fraction and blocks you, you talk to his uncle, he pays a fraction and blocks you, you talk to his dad, he pays the amount and claims he did it out of charity because you keep asking, then he blocks you.

Landlord comes to visit and brings his dog along, dog isn't trained, and bites you, you spend your weekends and your money to pay for vaccination and he doesn't even accept to deduct it from the rent, instead he puts you on a payment plan where you pay him the whole rent and then after a week he pays you a fraction of the cost and the rest later after he returns from his vacation of which he may never return...

A roommate (who has double your salary) keeps buying things on Tabby and suddenly realizes they don't have any money left from their salary for basic groceries, yet he orders 600 AED worth of food, fills up the entire fridge, most of it spoils, and yet they expect that you'll agree to pay upfront and they'll include you in their "meal plans" full of food you're allergic to (and they know it), yet when you flat out say No thanks they give you the weirdest look and ask you if you're "that cheap" while your work equipment costs their whole salary for 2 whole months...

Edit: since 2022 I haven't given anyone 1 AED, for any reason, I always say no (respectfully) and they start crying and retell their sob story which I respectfully say: it has nothing to do with me, sorry, I'm busy, bye. The only thing since 2022 is the times I've said no and the landlords dog bite which isn't directly me giving someone money, but someone else delaying payment.

My issue is: wealthy and able adults are asking for petty cash without feeling embarrassed to the extent of being scams

I just don't understand why, what's the point of hoarding money and pretending they don't have any and humiliating themselves by begging people for a loan?

It's so common and I'm scared that this is an expected behavior in this day and age, what's going on?

Is it entertaining to be chased for money you owe?
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3 Days in Dubai: Itinerary 2026

🗓️ Overview
This 3-day itinerary groups attractions by neighborhood to minimize transit time. You'll explore Old Dubai, modern Downtown, and the beachfront, with realistic travel times included. U…
🗓️ Overview
This 3-day itinerary groups attractions by neighborhood to minimize transit time. You'll explore Old Dubai, modern Downtown, and the beachfront, with realistic travel times included. Use the Dubai Metro and taxis to move efficiently between areas.

🏛️ Day 1: Old Dubai
Start at the Dubai Museum in Al Fahidi Fort (open 8:30am-8:30pm, 3 AED). Walk through the Al Fahidi Historical District, then take an abra across Dubai Creek (1 AED) to the Spice Souk and Gold Souk. Have lunch at Al Ustad Special Kebab (Al Mankhool Road, around 40 AED per person).

🌆 Day 2: Downtown & Burj Khalifa
Visit the Burj Khalifa at the Top observation deck (book online in advance, from 169 AED). Explore the Dubai Mall (open 10am-midnight) and see the Dubai Fountain shows every 30 minutes from 6pm. Dinner at The Dubai Mall food court or nearby Souk Al Bahar.

🏖️ Day 3: Beach & Marina
Spend the morning at JBR Beach (free public access) or Kite Beach (free, with rentals). Walk along The Walk at JBR for lunch. In the afternoon, visit the Dubai Marina Mall and take a 1-hour yacht tour from Marina Walk (from 100 AED). End with dinner at Pier 7.

🚇 Getting Around
The Dubai Metro (Red and Green lines) runs from 5am to midnight, with fares from 3 AED. Taxis start at 12 AED and are widely available. For Old Dubai, use the abra (water taxi) across the creek for 1 AED per trip.

💰 Budget Tips
Buy a Nol card for metro and bus travel (reloadable, from 25 AED). Many attractions offer online discounts if booked 48 hours ahead. Street food in Bur Dubai costs as little as 10 AED for a shawarma, while fine dining in Downtown starts at 200 AED per person.

🌙 Evening Options
On Day 1, watch the sunset from the Dubai Creek. Day 2: catch the 7pm or 8pm Dubai Fountain show. Day 3: visit The Pointe on Palm Jumeirah for views of Atlantis and dinner with a view (book at The Palm Fountain show, free).
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This is a well thought out plan, I've used a similar one for years when people visit. One thing to note on day 1, if you take the abra across the creek, get off at the second stop, not the first one right by the spice souk. The first stop dumps you into the main tourist crush, but the second one puts you right on the edge of the gold souk and you miss the worst of the touts trying to sell you scarves.

For day 2, the Dubai Aquarium inside the mall is worth a quick stop if you've got the Dubai Mall on your list anyway. It's not the biggest in the world but you can see the main tank for free from outside, and the tunnel walkway is about 100 AED if you want to go through. It takes maybe 20 minutes and gives you a break from the mall chaos.

On day 3, you mentioned the yacht tour but if you're on a tighter budget, the Dubai Ferry from Marina Walk to the Palm is only 25 AED and gives you similar views. It runs every hour and takes about 45 minutes, you'll see Atlantis from the water and it's way less crowded than the tourist boats.

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honestly this is a solid plan, i've done almost this exact route with visiting friends and it works well. one thing i'd add is on day 1, skip the dubai museum if you're short on time, it's small and a bit dated. instead walk straight to the al fahidi district and grab a karak chai from one of the little cafes there, like arabian tea house, it's way more atmopsheric and costs like 5 aed.

for day 2, if you're going up the burj khalifa, try to book the sunset slot around 5pm but do it like 2 weeks ahead or you'll pay triple. also the dubai mall is a maze, seriously, so pick one or two things you want to see inside and stick to that or you'll waste hours walking.

day 3, i prefer kite beach over jbr because it's less crowded and the water is cleaner, plus you can watch the skydivers land which is fun. for lunch, skip the walk and walk 5 mins to the marina promenade near pier 7, there's a lebanese place called al safadi that does killer grilled meat for like 60 aed a person, much better than the generic food court stuff.

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solid plan, i've done this with family a few times and it holds up. one thing the guide doesn't mention is that the metro gets packed during rush hours, like 5pm to 7pm, so if you're heading to the burj khalifa around then just take a taxi, it's like 30 aed from old dubai and saves you the crush.

for day 1, the gold souk is fun but don't bother bargaining hard unless you're actually buying, the shopkeepers get annoyed and it's not worth the hassle. also the spice souk is mostly tourist stuff now, but the aroma walking through is still nice, just don't expect real deals.

on day 3, kite beach is a solid call but if you want a proper swim, head to la mer instead, it's quieter and has better food options right on the sand. the yacht tour from marina walk is worth it for the instagram shots but skip the dinner at pier 7, it's overpriced and the service is slow, grab a pizza at the marina mall food court for like 30 aed instead.

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