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First time posting in this sub! I've been living in japan for 2 years now, but I've never heard of this happening to someone else so I would like some input.
The first time this… edit: grammar error
First time posting in this sub! I've been living in japan for 2 years now, but I've never heard of this happening to someone else so I would like some input.
The first time this happened it was around 10 pm. I had been walking about a minute away from my station, thankfully not in the direction of my house. A man walking ahead of me (japanese mid 20s/30s, white shirt, jeans, brown crossbody bag) appeared to have dropped some credit cards, ID, business cards, etc. It seemed like we noticed at the same time, as he seemed surprised. He bent down to pick them up and as I bent down to help him he waved his hand, gesturing for me to help him. I thought this was odd, as usually people say that they're okay or thank you. He started speaking to me and realized I could understand him, which was definitely my mistake for engaging. I stood up to get going and he continued talking to me and walking with me. He asked my age and if I lived nearby. I told him I was visiting a friend I and asked him if he lived here, which he denied. Then he claimed to be my age, which was very clearly bullshit. I only engaged until I could safely brush him off and duck into a conbini to hide until I felt I could head home. I stayed for a bit, checked outside to confirm he was gone, and proceeded. A few minutes into my walk I realized he had come up behind me. We were now in an empty street in a residential area. He called my attention and I realized he was holding the same stack of cards he had dropped earlier. Literally a foot away from me, looking me dead in the eyes, he threw them on the ground between us and pointed at them for me to pick them up. I had already started walking away but then he started following me and shouting "Hey! これ, pick up!" I ended up getting away safely. That first incident was a couple months ago, but last week, around last train I saw him at my station. I wasn't sure it was him until on my walk home he walked by me again (wearing the same outfit) and dropped the same cards, it was once again an empty street (this time, I noticed, in front of a parking lot entrance. I'm hoping it was a coincidence.) He started following me again and speaking to me, but this time I turned around, got in his face, and started cursing him out and shouting. I'm aware this wasn't the best idea, but I scared him off long enough for me to get away.
Is this something anyone has experienced here? Is there any legal way for me to defend myself in this kind of situation? I'm worried he will try to follow me home or continue harassing me by the station. Moreover, the way he acts makes me sure he has definitely done this to other women. I've dealt with regular nanpa, I'm a foreign woman in my early 20s, but this is very different.
the fact he's wearing the same outfit months later is the creepiest part, that's not a coincidence that's a pattern. if you haven't already, take photos of him from a distance next time if you can do it safely, even just his silhouette or the bag. having visual proof makes the koban report way more serious than just a description
also worth telling your station staff, like the guys in the booth near the ticket gates. they see the same faces every day and they'll keep an eye out if you describe him. i've had friends do this for different issues and the staff actually remembered and warned them when they spotted the guy
for self defense legally you're pretty limited in japan, pepper spray is technically not allowed but those alarm keychains are fine and honestly just as effective. also consider carrying a coin purse with loose change, throwing coins at someone's feet when they're close can buy you a second to run without it being considered assault
yeah that's not nanpa, that's a setup. the dropping cards thing is weirdly specific, i've heard of similar from friends in shinjuku and ikebukuro where they try to get u to bend down so they can get close or grab u. if he's at ur station same outfit months later that's stalking, not a coincidence. file a koban report even if they brush u off, just having a paper trail helps. also change up ur route home for a bit and maybe get one of those alarm keychains from donki, they're cheap and loud as hell.
honestly that's terrifying and i'm sorry you're dealing with this. the card drop thing is a known hustle, i've heard of it near shinjuku and roppongi where they try to get you to bend down so they can get close or grab your bag. the fact he's doing it in the same spot months later in the same outfit means he's targeting you specifically, not just a random creep.
file a report at the koban near your station, even if the cops seem useless. they can at least note his description and maybe patrol that area around last train. also swap up your timing if possible, leave 10 minutes earlier or later and take a different route home even if it's longer. those alarm keychains from donki are like 500 yen and they're loud enough to wake up the whole block, definitely worth grabbing one.
if you see him again don't engage at all, just head straight into a conbini or a taxi stand and call the police. your safety is more important than being polite.
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Ueno is excellent for families thanks to Ueno Park, the zoo, and several museums all within walking distance. Hotels like the Ueno Station Hostel Oriental I offer dorm beds from $25, while the Mitsui Garden Hotel Ueno costs around $120 per night. The area is well-connected by JR and metro lines, making day trips easy.
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Budget travelers can find capsule hotels or hostels for $20-40 per night in areas like Asakusa or Ueno. Mid-range business hotels (Toyoko Inn, APA Hotels) average $80-120 per night. For luxury, expect $300-600 per night in central districts. Book early for cherry blossom season (late March to early April).
honestly the guide nailed it but i'd throw in nakameguro for anyone visiting in spring. the canal walk during cherry blossom season is insane, way less crowded than ueno or shinjuku gyoen. plus there's a killer onigiri spot called Onigiri Bongo that sells out by noon, and the area has a ton of tiny wine bars and vintage shops. rooms at the Claska hotel start around $120 and it's a quick hop to shibuya on the tokyu line
solid write-up, covers the big ones well. for my money, if you're a food nerd, staying near a good tsukemen or ramen spot is a legit strategy. i booked a hotel in takadanobaba once just cause i wanted to be walking distance from Taishoken, the tsukemen birthplace. that area is also full of student bars and cheap eats since Waseda Uni is there, rooms at the b:CONTE hotel run like $90 a night and it's two stops from Shinjuku on the Yamanote. way less tourist crush than Shibuya for late-night bowls
This is a solid breakdown, really covers the main bases well. One thing I'd add for anyone staying in Shinjuku is that the station itself can be overwhelming even for locals, so picking a hotel on the west side near the Tokyo Metropolitan Government Building is a good hack. The views from the free observation deck there are just as good as the paid ones, and you avoid the chaos of the east exit. For cheap eats in that area, the basement floor of Takashimaya department store has incredible takeout bento boxes under 1,000 yen that beat most convenience store meals.