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Question about "ladies of the night", why do so many Japanese allow "filming"?
However, in Japan, it seems like many of the women allow you to film their faces. Why is this? Why is the Japanese industry so different than anywhere else in the world in this regard?
I mean, I've talked to a lot of these girls and they all do it to make some side money and want to get out eventually... but do they not realize that they have hundreds, maybe more, videos of them getting banged and nutted upon?? Seems kind of crazy to me.
I mean imagine marrying a girl and finding out she used to be a working gal. Then imagine there are 100s of home videos of her getting plowed by 100s of random men floating out in the world.
Is this a cultural thing or what? Seems so strange and unique to Japan.
yeah the existing replies cover most of it but theres one thing nobody mentioned yet. a big part is how the delivery health and soapland girls are often managed by chinese or korean run agencies in kabukicho, and those guys have zero incentive to protect the girls' privacy long term. they rotate the women every few months so by the time a leak happens the girl is already gone and the agency just rebrands under a new name
also honestly a lot of these girls are from poor families in the philippines or thailand working on student visas, they dont have the social capital to push back even if they wanted to. the agency tells them "this is just for the client's personal collection" and they nod along because saying no means losing the gig and potentially their visa status
and about the marriage thing you mentioned, thats actually less of a concern here than youd think. japanese guys who marry former sex workers either already know or theyre in deep denial. the ones who dont want to know will actively avoid checking social media or asking questions. the culture of willful ignorance around this stuff is pretty strong, people compartmentalize like crazy
The existing replies are right about the power dynamics and the transactional trust thing, but there's another layer. A lot of these women working in the delivery health or soap land scenes in places like Yoshiwara or Kabukicho are doing it through agencies that explicitly market "no face hiding" as a premium service to guys, and they're told the videos are just for the agency's internal records or to prove the girl showed up. They genuinely believe it won't leak because the agency would lose their license if it did, but the agency doesn't actually care once the money's in hand. The naivety isn't just about exploitation, it's also about this very Japanese assumption that a business will follow the rules because the consequences for the business would be worse than for the individual girl.
honestly i think part of it is just how transactional the whole scene is over here. in japan theres this weird trust thing where if a guy pays for the "premium" option they assume he wont leak it because that would be bad for business for the agency or whatever. plus a lot of these girls are working through soaplands or delivery health services where the studio or manager is literally in the next room watching, so the whole "private" concept is kinda fake from the start. theyre prob told its just for "quality control" or some bullshit and they believe it
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Best pub near The Crown in Tokyo 2026
Mikkeller Kanda, Tuesday nights, no cover.
the crown's fine but i usually walk down to the hub in shibuya for a proper pint, cheaper too. for cards, most places here take visa but amex gets turned down a lot, so i'd carry a visa backup.
Hub's a chain though, Popeye in Ryogoku pours better.
Try Mugito in Ebisu if you want a quieter pint, it's a short ride from there. For cards, mine gets declined too so I just bring cash now.
cash is king there, 7-Eleven ATM takes foreign cards
Second this, cash saves the hassle.