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isabell wants to visit a museum at Ocean Center
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want to meet at Brew Lab

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janin wants to drink coffee at Brew Lab
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alena wants to drink coffee at Brew Lab
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want to meet at Steeped

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philine wants to drink coffee at Steeped
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belina wants to drink coffee at Steeped
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elselore wants to drink coffee at Steeped
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Practice English over coffee.
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Being a young woman and feeling unsafe is a really tough situation. It sucks.

This is just a rant post tbh because I'm so tired of this. I'm 19F and I can't go anywhere at night without feeling unsafe. My job is related to nightlife and I enjoy going to gigs very often thus I h… This is just a rant post tbh because I'm so tired of this. I'm 19F and I can't go anywhere at night without feeling unsafe. My job is related to nightlife and I enjoy going to gigs very often thus I have to commute quite often between the times of 7pm-12am. No matter where I go I always feel nervous and unsafe. I used to live in Wedding and got full on groped at night walking back home and the man just ran off into the trees when I yelled "what the fuck?", I've also gotten followed countless times and stared at on the u-bahn. I recently moved to F-Hain so I thought it'd be a bit safer but I still don't feel completely comfortable. The other day I went by myself to grab a beer at a bar closeby to my house and this guy started talking to me. I don't really mind basic conversation and I tend to be friendly to strangers because that's how I was raised culturally. The conversation was awkward, he started asking about where I lived (I just said in the neighbourhood) and if my roommates were girls. At some point he left to get some food and I was relieved thinking he had left for good but then he came back and asked "Can we go back to your place?" to which I just said no. He wouldn't leave my table so I pretended to call a friend and told him kindly to leave because I was on the phone. He wasn't getting the memo so I said I was uncomfortable and he just stared at me with such a stupid look as if I had said something outrageous. He finally left, sat down at another table alone and just stared at me. Thankfully some nice people at the table next to me made me company until the guy left. Last friday I was taking the u-bahn with a friend for two stops, one guy in russian asked me to hold his beer (which I ignored) and he got aggressive and started yelling, but that probably wasn't too personal. On saturday I took the u-bahn to görli and this guy in front of me (probably high) was staring at my chest and followed me for a bit when I got off. The amount of times I keep getting followed and harassed by older men in these situations is getting really annoying, I wanna have a good time just as everyone else and enjoy my free time without having to have my plans ruined by these dudes with no boundaries or understanding of social cues
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Image louis local ·

that's rough, i'm sorry. fhain is better than wedding for sure but honestly some of the worst street harassment i've had was around boxhagener platz. the bars near there can be a mixed bag too, lots of tourists and guys who think it's a pickup spot. if you haven't already, maybe try some of the smaller bars on the ringbahn side of frankfurter allee, they tend to have more regulars and a calmer vibe. also for getting home late, the tram lines like the M10 or M13 feel way safer to me than the u-bahn because there's more people and it's above ground

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Image siska local ·

honestly the russian beer thing is pretty standard u-bahn nonsense, sorry u had to deal with that. for the bar situation, try schlesisches tor area instead of boxi, the bars along pflügerstraße are more chill and less touristy. also the 8 bus runs all night from hermannplatz to fhain and the drivers are usually pretty aware of sketchy stuff happening, i've seen them call cops on guys being creepy. maybe ask ur coworkers about their routes too, nightlife workers usually have a shared map of safer streets and spots to avoid

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Image adelheide local ·

Berlin can feel really predatory for women, no question. Have you tried the "Berlin Companion" app where you can share your route with friends?

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What is the correct spelling for a street name that appears differently on multiple signs in Charlottenburg?

I noticed that the street name is spelled differently on three separate signs in the Charlottenburg area. Can anyone confirm the correct official spelling and whether this is a known issue? I noticed that the street name is spelled differently on three separate signs in the Charlottenburg area. Can anyone confirm the correct official spelling and whether this is a known issue?
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Worth noting that Berlin street names have official umlaut and ß rules that trip people up, so a sign showing "Strasse" versus "Straße" is not actually a spelling error, just an older transcription. Same with "ue" versus "ü" (e.g. "Kantstrasse" vs "Kantstraße"), both are considered valid renderings and you'll see the ß version on the blue Schilder and the ss version on older plaques or in databases that predate Unicode. If the difference you're seeing is between those two forms, there's nothing to fix and both are technically correct.

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Image lenari local ·

if the signs u mean are the old enamel ones on the house facades those are often protected as Baudenkmal so nobody's allowed to correct them even if the spelling is outdated. the binding version is whatever is in the Berliner Strassenverzeichnis plus the entry in the Liegenschaftskataster, so if u tell me the street i can point u to the right Bezirksamt Mitte or Charlottenburg-Wilmersdorf page. tbh the merged district thing is real but the facade signs are a separate story, theyre basically museum pieces at this point

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Image annelinde local ·

honestly thats super common in Charlottenburg, the district offices were merged from older Bezirke and nobody ever fixed all the Schilder. if its a real street you can check the official strassenverzeichnis on berlin.de, that list is what the Burgeramt actually goes by. which street is it? some of the Kaiserdamm / Kantstrasse signs are notorious for this.

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