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want to meet at Nonno's

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siska wants to eat something at Nonno's
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8h ago
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Open to anywhere with good food.
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lea wants to eat something at Nonno's
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4mos ago
Local recommendations welcome.
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rose wants to eat something at Nonno's
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4mos ago

want to meet at Steeped

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belina wants to drink coffee at Steeped
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1d ago
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elselore wants to drink coffee at Steeped
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4mos ago
Practice English over coffee.

want to meet at Daybreak Cafe

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dina wants to drink coffee at Daybreak Cafe
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rosemaria wants to drink coffee at Daybreak Cafe
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4mos ago
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marita wants to drink coffee at Daybreak Cafe
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4mos ago
Slow morning + caffeine.
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What is the truth about Berlin?

Hallo everybody! I'm a 24yo Italian guy on a holiday trip in Berlin with my girlfriend.

Since I've been in Berlin, IG started bombing my feed with contents about how cool Berlin is, and up to now I c…
Hallo everybody! I'm a 24yo Italian guy on a holiday trip in Berlin with my girlfriend.

Since I've been in Berlin, IG started bombing my feed with contents about how cool Berlin is, and up to now I can totally relate. For sure the fact that I've been living in Rome for 24 years, where nothing works, put Berlin in a total fancy spotlight below my eyes, but in this 3 days I had zero problem with the city, the Mitte (where I'm staying) is always super easy and quiet, and you can reach almost everything with ease thanks to the well working public transportation system (again, maybe I think it like this because I've grown up in Rome where you have to pray for not to wait the bus or metro for more than 20 minutes).

Back again to my IG feed, I took advantage to it for reading some comments under some posts, just for finding out that for the non-Berliners the city is an absolute mess. Everyone says that the city stinks, that it's dirty, that there are too many immigrants, that it's all an open work which block the viability significantly, that Berliners are rude, that they are terrible at driving and that all the Germans are ashamed by Berlin.

I honestly don't get it, despite having seen lots of works I don't see it as a bad thing, I think it's good for maintaining the city in a proper state.

I would like to know from you Berliners, Germans and possibly Italians immigrants that can do a proper compare between the two realities:

What is the truth about Berlin?
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Image victoria local ·

The truth is somewhere in between. You're seeing the best version of Berlin as a tourist in Mitte with everything working well, but spend a year dealing with the Burgeramt or waiting for a U-Bahn on a Sunday morning and you'll understand the complaints. The city has real problems with bureaucracy, punctuality on certain lines, and some neighborhoods are genuinely grimy, but that's also part of what makes it feel alive compared to somewhere sterile like Munich. Your Rome comparison is fair, Berlin works better than most Italian cities, but Germans from other regions have higher standards so they're harder to impress.

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Image nadja local ·

honestly you're getting the tourist version of Mitte which is basically a theme park version of Berlin. Mitte is clean because it's full of tourists and rich people, go to Neukolln or Wedding and you'll see the other side where trash piles up and people leave their old furniture on the sidewalk for weeks

the stink thing is real though, especially in summer when all the glass bottles get left out and the pee smell from the U-Bahn hits you. Berliners are rude in a specific way, they're not mean they just don't do small talk or fake politeness, which can feel aggressive if you're from Italy where everyone chats you up

the construction is never ending and it's not about maintaining the city, it's about building luxury apartments nobody can afford while the S-Bahn breaks down constantly. still beats Rome's public transport by a mile, but that's a low bar tbh

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Image maike local ·

You've hit on something real with the Rome comparison. I moved here from Munich years ago and the difference is night and day. Berlin is genuinely messy in a way that offends German sensibilities, but that chaos is why it has nightlife and culture that actually feels alive. The complaints about dirt and construction are true, try walking around Hermannplatz on a Monday morning after the markets, but that's the trade-off for a city that isn't sanitized and boring.

The immigrant comment you saw is a whole different thing. Berlin has a huge Turkish and Arab population, especially in Neukolln and Wedding, and some people resent that the city doesn't feel "German" anymore. As an Italian you'd probably find those neighborhoods more familiar and comfortable than the sterile parts of Mitte, better food, more life on the streets, but also more litter and noise. The truth is Berlin is many cities in one and which one you get depends entirely on where you stand.

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What is the correct spelling for a street name that appears differently on multiple signs in Charlottenburg?

I noticed that the street name is spelled differently on three separate signs in the Charlottenburg area. Can anyone confirm the correct official spelling and whether this is a known issue? I noticed that the street name is spelled differently on three separate signs in the Charlottenburg area. Can anyone confirm the correct official spelling and whether this is a known issue?
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Worth noting that Berlin street names have official umlaut and ß rules that trip people up, so a sign showing "Strasse" versus "Straße" is not actually a spelling error, just an older transcription. Same with "ue" versus "ü" (e.g. "Kantstrasse" vs "Kantstraße"), both are considered valid renderings and you'll see the ß version on the blue Schilder and the ss version on older plaques or in databases that predate Unicode. If the difference you're seeing is between those two forms, there's nothing to fix and both are technically correct.

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Image lenari local ·

if the signs u mean are the old enamel ones on the house facades those are often protected as Baudenkmal so nobody's allowed to correct them even if the spelling is outdated. the binding version is whatever is in the Berliner Strassenverzeichnis plus the entry in the Liegenschaftskataster, so if u tell me the street i can point u to the right Bezirksamt Mitte or Charlottenburg-Wilmersdorf page. tbh the merged district thing is real but the facade signs are a separate story, theyre basically museum pieces at this point

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Image annelinde local ·

honestly thats super common in Charlottenburg, the district offices were merged from older Bezirke and nobody ever fixed all the Schilder. if its a real street you can check the official strassenverzeichnis on berlin.de, that list is what the Burgeramt actually goes by. which street is it? some of the Kaiserdamm / Kantstrasse signs are notorious for this.

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