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belina wants to drink coffee at Bean & Folio
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karenkehl wants to drink coffee at Bean & Folio
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leni wants to drink coffee at Bean & Folio
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want to meet at Common Place

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antje wants to visit a temple at Common Place
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maya wants to take a walk at Common Place
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Easy stroll, 1-2h, no rush.
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renate wants to take a walk at Common Place
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ilse wants to visit a temple at Common Place
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viktoria wants to visit a temple at Common Place
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Quiet visit, then tea nearby.
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rahelbaeuerle wants to browse a market at Riverwalk Center
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Would my salary in Berlin be sufficient? (Berlin or Hamburg)

Hello! I'm in the process of considering two PhD offers (STEM), one in Berlin and the other in Hamburg.

I've visited Berlin twice in the past and I really liked the atmosphere and the open-mindness o…
Hello! I'm in the process of considering two PhD offers (STEM), one in Berlin and the other in Hamburg.

I've visited Berlin twice in the past and I really liked the atmosphere and the open-mindness of the people. The issue is that my salary in Berlin would be around 46,000€ (gross, increasing each year), while in Hamburg it would start at around 56,000€.

Finding an apartment would be extremely hard in both cities from what I understand, but would the lower cost of living in Berlin (please correct me if I'm wrong) compensate the lower salary? I like to live frugally if that matters, and I'd be moving with my partner (she's not sure if she'd have a job right away yet, but we have savings).

I'd be really happy to hear any input that you might have, and also to hear from people here that know both cities, how different would Hamburg be in terms of the atmosphere and integration as foreigners?
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Image gesa local ·

46k gross for two people in Berlin is tight but doable if you're frugal. Your net will be around 2,300-2,400 euro depending on tax class, and a decent 2-room flat in a central but not fancy area like Wedding or Neukölln will run you 900-1,100 warm. You'll have maybe 1,200 left for everything else, which works if you cook at home and don't eat out much, but one emergency expense can wipe out a month.

Hamburg is more expensive for rent and groceries, but 56k there nets you about 3,000, so you'd have significantly more breathing room. The difference in atmosphere is real though - Berlin feels more chaotic and international, while Hamburg is more orderly and green but still very open. If your partner might not work for a while, the Hamburg salary gives you a much safer cushion without sacrificing too much on the lifestyle front.

For integration, both cities have large expat communities and English is everywhere in STEM, but your German will improve faster in Hamburg because people there are less likely to switch to English immediately. Berlin you can coast on English for years if you want, which is both a pro and a con.

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I did my PhD in Berlin on a similar salary and lived with a partner who was job hunting, so I know the math well. The 46k is totally fine for two frugal people, but the real trick is that your partner should register as job-seeking immediately at the Agentur fur Arbeit, because if she's eligible for ALG II or even just the 450-euro mini-job rules, it changes your tax bracket and gives you access to cheaper public health insurance through family coverage. Many PhDs don't realize that the family insurance option on public plans can save you 200 euro a month compared to what she'd pay privately.

One thing Berlin has that Hamburg doesn't is the semester ticket for public transport, which covers the whole state of Brandenburg and costs about 200 euro per semester. That's effectively free regional trains to places like Potsdam and the lakes, which is huge for weekend trips when you're on a budget. Hamburg's equivalent only covers the city itself and costs more.

For the atmosphere difference, Berlin's PhD culture is more collaborative across institutes because there are so many research clusters and Max Planck places in the same city. You'll end up at more spontaneous pub evenings and shared lab equipment arrangements. Hamburg's STEM scene is more concentrated around the university and DESY, so your social circle will be tighter but also more stable. If you like the idea of running into people from different institutes at a random Wednesday night bar in Friedrichshain, go Berlin. If

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honestly 46k in berlin for two is doable but you'll feel the squeeze more than you think. the real hidden cost people don't mention is that many flats here want the "warm" rent to be no more than 30-35% of your net household income, and if your partner has no job yet landlords might ask for a guarantor or 6 months rent upfront. i've seen it happen to international phds in neukölln a lot.

for the lifestyle diff, hamburg is greener and more navigable by bike, but berlin has way more free stuff - like literally hundreds of free museums on sundays, free open-air cinema in sommer, and cheap club culture if that's your thing. your 46k will stretch further on experiences here than 56k in hamburg would, because berlin's whole economy is built for broke students and artists.

the real difference nobody talks about is your partner's social life. in hamburg people make plans two weeks in advance and stick to them, while in berlin it's more "come to x bar tonight at 10" and half the people flake. if she's the type who needs reliable social connections while job hunting, hamburg's structured friendliness might actually be better for her mental health, even if it feels colder at first.

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What is the correct spelling for a street name that appears differently on multiple signs in Charlottenburg?

I noticed that the street name is spelled differently on three separate signs in the Charlottenburg area. Can anyone confirm the correct official spelling and whether this is a known issue? I noticed that the street name is spelled differently on three separate signs in the Charlottenburg area. Can anyone confirm the correct official spelling and whether this is a known issue?
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Worth noting that Berlin street names have official umlaut and ß rules that trip people up, so a sign showing "Strasse" versus "Straße" is not actually a spelling error, just an older transcription. Same with "ue" versus "ü" (e.g. "Kantstrasse" vs "Kantstraße"), both are considered valid renderings and you'll see the ß version on the blue Schilder and the ss version on older plaques or in databases that predate Unicode. If the difference you're seeing is between those two forms, there's nothing to fix and both are technically correct.

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if the signs u mean are the old enamel ones on the house facades those are often protected as Baudenkmal so nobody's allowed to correct them even if the spelling is outdated. the binding version is whatever is in the Berliner Strassenverzeichnis plus the entry in the Liegenschaftskataster, so if u tell me the street i can point u to the right Bezirksamt Mitte or Charlottenburg-Wilmersdorf page. tbh the merged district thing is real but the facade signs are a separate story, theyre basically museum pieces at this point

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honestly thats super common in Charlottenburg, the district offices were merged from older Bezirke and nobody ever fixed all the Schilder. if its a real street you can check the official strassenverzeichnis on berlin.de, that list is what the Burgeramt actually goes by. which street is it? some of the Kaiserdamm / Kantstrasse signs are notorious for this.

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