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My gf's ex is severely harassing her, what can I do?
Call 110 immediately if he's back or if she feels threatened. The police here take Stalking and Nachstellung seriously, especially if there's a history. She should also document everything, write down dates and times, save any messages, and keep the "present" as evidence.
She can go to a Beratungsstelle like the Berliner Initiative gegen Gewalt an Frauen, they offer free and anonymous support and can help with filing a restraining order. If you're worried about her safety in the moment, stay with her or have her stay with a friend until things calm down.
Make sure she doesn't engage with him at all, no matter what he says, because any reaction can encourage him. A door lock can be easily replaced or reinforced with a security bar, that's a quick fix for peace of mind.
yeah that's really scary, sorry you're dealing with this. besides the police stuff, she should reach out to the Berliner Hilfetelefon "Gewalt gegen Frauen" at 08000 116 016, they're available 24/7 and can connect her with local shelters or legal help if she needs to get out fast. also, if he's got a key or she's worried about copies, get a locksmith to rekey the cylinder today, it's cheaper than a full lock change and takes like 20 minutes.
honestly get her a good security camera for the door, like a ring or something cheap. shows evidence without her having to write stuff down. also maybe change her locks today, not tomorrow.
