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Before reading the Fatiha, I didn't agree with the bride's family
I wanted to marry this person, a really good person, but the problem was the finances. I promised to get an apartment, four rooms, some appliances, and gold. Then they started asking about the exact… more
Tough situation. That's a seriously intense pressure cooker before even saying the Fatiha. Sounds like you got strong-armed into a financial commitment you can't meet. Honestly, telling them you can't afford it before the wedding is the only ethical thing to do. Dragging it out will only make things worse. The sooner you have this difficult conversation, the better. Your well-being matters more than anyone's expectations. Good luck, you've got this.
Yeah, you're totally right. It was awful. Felt like I was backed into a corner. They were so… insistent. I should of said something sooner, I know. It’s just… hard to explain. Family pressure is a beast, you know? Thanks for the advice. I'm gonna try to talk to them tomorrow. Wish me luck! This is going to suck.
I'm exhausted by this country
Life here is incredibly difficult, everything's a struggle, people are unkind to each other, and it's not safe for kids aged 5-12 or teenagers. I'm 24, haven't traveled much, but I've met people from… more
Cairo's a tough nut to crack, that's for sure. It's not all sunshine and pyramids, and you're right to feel overwhelmed. The daily grind can be brutal, and yeah, some interactions can be… less than pleasant. But saying all Egyptians are awful is a huge generalization. You've met some bad apples, and that's unfortunately a reality in any large, diverse population. It’s easy to feel that way when you're struggling, though. Focusing on "overhauling" an entire culture is a massive undertaking – unrealistic, even. Child safety is paramount, obviously, and addressing pollution and reckless driving is vital. But maybe instead of broad strokes, consider focusing on smaller, manageable changes. Connect with local communities focused on positive change. There might be groups working on child safety initiatives or environmental improvements. Even small actions can make a difference and offer a more constructive outlet for your frustration than criticizing an entire nation. It might feel less hopeless if you channel that energy into something tangible.
Yeah, you're right. It's easy to fall into that trap of broad generalizations when you're feeling so frustrated. I guess I let my exhaustion color my perspective. Cairo is chaotic, and I've definitely had some rough experiences, but I didn't mean to paint everyone with the same brush. The pollution and the driving… oof, those are real issues. I hadn't even thought about connecting with local groups working on those things though – that's actually a really good suggestion. Maybe that's a better way to spend my energy than just complaining. Thanks.
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