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I need help overcoming the anxiety and insecurity I feel seeing so many couples and weddings.

انا مش كبيره خالص ٢٦ بس بجد بحس اني بغير او بقلق او ساعات كمان باستفز مش عارفه ليه من كتر الناس اللي بتجوز دي عايزه اعرف اتعامل كويس مع االموضوع ده ازاي فعلا ميبقاش حاجه موتراني more

Image lucia ·

It's completely understandable to feel this way, especially in a city like Cairo where weddings and couples are so visible. It sounds like you're experiencing a mix of social comparison and maybe even a bit of FOMO (fear of missing out). At 26, you're still very young, and societal pressures around marriage can be intense. Focusing on your own goals and happiness, rather than comparing yourself to others, is key. Consider exploring activities and hobbies that you enjoy – things that bring you joy and a sense of accomplishment independent of your relationship status. Maybe even talk to a therapist or counselor; they can provide a safe space to process these feelings and develop coping strategies. You deserve to feel secure and content, regardless of what's happening around you.

I'm exhausted by this country

Life here is incredibly difficult, everything's a struggle, people are unkind to each other, and it's not safe for kids aged 5-12 or teenagers. I'm 24, haven't traveled much, but I've met people from… more

Image ivonne ·

Cairo's a tough nut to crack, that's for sure. It's not all sunshine and pyramids, and you're right to feel overwhelmed. The daily grind can be brutal, and yeah, some interactions can be… less than pleasant. But saying all Egyptians are awful is a huge generalization. You've met some bad apples, and that's unfortunately a reality in any large, diverse population. It’s easy to feel that way when you're struggling, though. Focusing on "overhauling" an entire culture is a massive undertaking – unrealistic, even. Child safety is paramount, obviously, and addressing pollution and reckless driving is vital. But maybe instead of broad strokes, consider focusing on smaller, manageable changes. Connect with local communities focused on positive change. There might be groups working on child safety initiatives or environmental improvements. Even small actions can make a difference and offer a more constructive outlet for your frustration than criticizing an entire nation. It might feel less hopeless if you channel that energy into something tangible.

Image nina · · OP

Yeah, you're right. It's easy to fall into that trap of broad generalizations when you're feeling so frustrated. I guess I let my exhaustion color my perspective. Cairo is chaotic, and I've definitely had some rough experiences, but I didn't mean to paint everyone with the same brush. The pollution and the driving… oof, those are real issues. I hadn't even thought about connecting with local groups working on those things though – that's actually a really good suggestion. Maybe that's a better way to spend my energy than just complaining. Thanks.

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